The sacredness of marriage: Marriage is not merely a human agreement between two consenting individuals; it is a relationship - a covenant - before and under God (Genesis 2:22).   Marriage is the most intimate of all human relationships, uniting a man and a woman in a ‘one-flesh’ union (Genesis 2:23 -25). Marriage involves ‘leaving’ your family and ‘being united’ to your spouse. It makes two into a union of one in an unconditional, selfless and life-giving love. Marriage is a relationship of free self-giving of a man and a woman to one another (Ephesians 5:25-30). The husband and wife are to be first and foremost concerned about the wellbeing of the other person and to be committed to each other in steadfast love and devotion. This involves the need for forgiveness.

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The exclusiveness of marriage: Marriage is not only permanent, sacred, intimate, and mutual; it is also exclusive (Genesis 2:22-25; 1 Corinthians 7:2-5). This means that no other human relationship must interfere with the marriage commitment between husband and wife.

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The steps for Marriage in Our Lady Star of the Sea Roman Catholic Church are as follows: -

 

• Attend Mass regularly.

• Complete online enquiry form.

• You must be free to marry. Those in irregular marital situations (e.g. civil divorce) must approach the Clergy of the Parish in the first instance for advice.

• The diocesan policy on marriage states that at least six months’ notice of marriage is normal. This is to ensure paperwork and preparation can both be completed in good time.